Three years ago I overheard a conversation while rummaging through some cd bins at Barnes & Noble. Two middle aged working class white men were talking music by the checkout counter, and I couldn't have been more than eight feet from their presence. One guy was considerably taller and huskier than the other fellow; he reminded me of an unkempt, goateed (and straight) Rock Hudson. One of their voices grew more coloful, and I drew closer. The taller man started: "Hey Dan, you've heard this, right?" He raised Billy Joel's River of Dreams album into the air in view for his friend.
"No, actually I haven't."
The big man, then, without hesitation, tossed it onto the counter near the registers. "What are you doing?" said the shorter man.
"It's yours," he shot back, "I'm buying it for you. You need to have this record."
"Oh, that's alright man, you don't need to do that" said the small man.
"Well, it's got the Lullaby on it. Lotta pain. Wrote it during the breakup with Christie." Then he turned toward the cashier and said "Hey, can you play this on the loudspeaker? I want my friend to hear something."
"I'm sorry, I can't do that."
"That's okay. Just ring us up. Yep, throw that one on my bill, too"